Healing Your Brokenness….


Brokenness is like a disease, if not treated it can take over your life. And often times the one that is broken is unable to heal on their own. When a relationship is ending be it a marriage, friendship or partnership it is important to take an honest look at the role that you played in that disconnect, though hard, it is helpful to go deep within yourself evaluate you and determine if there is anything you could have done differently. The different could be from the way you interacted (communication, compromising, openness, etc.)  in the relationship to just were you true to yourself in the relationship. Take ownership!

The saying hurt people, hurt people is very true.  I recently had an experience where a broken person tried to hurt me by saying something that was so untrue, outside of my character and just down right rude, that it deeply hurt me. Initially I didn’t recognize the true issue but as I told the story to one of my confidants, I realized this person is not seeing the true issue for what it is, but instead is STILL trying to find fault and blame in me for the break down in our relationship.  Again take ownership and be honest  with yourself then the healing can begin. Don’t allow someone else’s brokenness become your broken mess!
The Selena Dawn

Hello world and WELCOME!!!

You can be the most beautiful person in the world and everybody sees light and rainbows when they look at you, but if you yourself don’t know it, all of that doesn’t even matter. Every second that you spend on doubting your worth, every moment that you use to criticize yourself; is a second of your life wasted, is a moment of your life thrown away. It’s not like you have forever, so don’t waste any of your seconds, don’t throw even one of your moments away. – C. JoyBell C.

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WELCOME to “Well-Heeled Souls” where the heels mean nothing without the complete outfit comprised of the mind, heart, and soul!

In a time [and world] where many women have become caught up in presenting a well-rounded external appearance complete with designer stilettos paired with the latest and greatest designer duds, and faces beat to perfection (i.e., that means make-up to perfection); yet the internal outfit is a broken, battered, and worn down pair of kicks.  Where common sense is largely uncommon and women have somehow forgotten their value and worth, it became apparent that we [women] must be reminded that our stock price is not in our designer heels alone but our total package inside and out – our “Well-Heeled Souls.”

Well Heeled Souls”  is about understanding, owning, and upholding our worth in the day-to-day interactions and myriad of situations we encounter; it’s about standing firm based on who we [who we know ourselves to be] to ensure we get exactly what we deserve [read: are worthy of], no more, no less.

Join us as we explore the many ways to strut through life with a banging pair of heels but to do so Well HEALED with “Well Heeled Souls!”

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Don’t think about making life better for other people who don’t even deserve you, rather, focus on making your life the best, for yourself and those who love you.  C. JoyBell